Door Of Happiness!!

Finding happiness is like finding yourself. You choose happiness. it is a process of discovering who you are, who you want to be. Happiness is not merely a life lived for moments of pleasure. but, happiness is a long lasting enduring enjoyment of life, it is being in love with living.

Being happy is linked to better health and even a longer life.

ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE

Happy people have modest levels of expectation and aspirations. They want what they can get. while unhappy people never seem to get what they want. They also know how to avoid disappointments and how to generate pleasant surprises. This is because they live for realistic goals. we must accept things as they come. 

ENJOY WHAT YOU DO

Happy people do what they enjoy and enjoy what they do. There’s no point being stuck in a job you hate, surrounded by unfriendly colleagues just because the money is good. People forget that they are allowed to be happy at work, too. Many spend the best years of their lives trying to make money, sacrificing their health and family in the process. They do spend the same money they made working trying to recover their lost health and family. 

LIVE FOR TODAY

Don’t dwell on the past, on things that went wrong or previous failures. Similarly, don’t dream about an idealised future that doesn’t exist or worry about what hasn’t happened yet. Happy people live for the now; they have positive mind sets. If you can’t be happy today, what makes you think tomorrow will be different?

CHOOSE HAPPINESS

Don’t be afraid to step back and re-evaluate your goals. Imagine your life as a story that you can edit and revise as you go along. This kind of flexible approach requires positive thinking and an open mind. you need to actively choose to be happy.

RELATIONSHIPS

We get our happiness from other people, and from supporting other people. Remember that just as other people can make us happy, we are all ‘other people’ to someone else. 

STAY BUSY

If you want to be happier, develop an outgoing, social personality. accept that drinks invitation, join any club, or anything u like. The best of pleasure is in the company of others.

BE YOURSELF

You shouldn’t compare yourself with others, it’s important not to worry about what others think about you, only then you can truly be yourself.
Happy people are spontaneous, natural and real. they say what they think and  feel, and aren’t concerned what others think of them. Being oneself makes one feel free.

STOP WORRYING

Don’t take yourself too seriously. Happy people don’t worry and work at developing optimistic thinking. happy people always look on the  bright side. Successful people know to focus on winning, not losing

GET ORGANISED

Happy people plan and organise, they have goals and a purpose. You can only get what you want or desire if you know what it is you want or desire in the first place. So while those chilled-out friends might seem happy, they’re actually just drifting along. 

VALUE HAPPINESS

Happiness can be learned. Happiness comes only from appreciating what you have. You can even be happy by appreciating your troubles because they do help to build your character and add value.

You will never be happier if you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.

How important is it to give a handshake?

A Handshake

we considers the handshake an enormous moment because we live in such a hands-off culture; thus, the handshake is often the first time two strangers make actual physical contact. The first derived impressions after you give a handshake run from professional to friendly way in a variety of situations.

The following four steps to give a handshake are basic.

Make eye contact

Start a proper manly handshake by doing three things at once: first, look the person in the eye. If you’re sitting, stand up, and as you stand, quickly and discreetly make certain your hand is dry by pressing it against your pant leg. when you give a handshake smile generally will work in your favor.

Escaping eye contact is a way to stir distrust. Making eye contact will give benefit in all respect.

Extend your hand

If you are being introduced to someone or introducing yourself, extend your right hand with your palm facing due left to give a handshake. neither lock your elbow so your arm is part of a joust nor tuck your elbow so far in that you’re making a right angle. Somewhere in the middle works just fine.

Remember, you are opening yourself up to a greeting.

Grip firmly

I think we all know what it means to grip firmly. No need to prove your strength — this isn’t the gym. The grip is where a lot of guys spy a moment to flex, to show who’s boss. If you meet one of these guys, do your best not to react. Just keep up your end of the bargain and grip like a man. When you give a handshake, grip as tightly as other person want you to grip.

Release

Finally, the last step in giving a proper handshake involves the release. just go with the flow, since some people prefer a longer handshake, but you should be prepared to let go after those “two or three pumps” and try to signal as much by relaxing the muscles in your hand.

A handshake is a social convention that communicates a lot about us. The key is to toe the line: Clinging to another’s hand too long creates an awkward situation, while releasing too soon exudes its own level of discomfort!!

What Personality are you? | Human behavior | Types of Personalities

External and Internal Personalities:

We meet so many people at work with different personalities. In order to shape up overall personality, both external and internal personalities count- you actually display outwardly as well as what you really are. At times, you may succeed in displaying good side of you despite your internally weak personality but it requires lots of efforts. On the other side, if your internal personality is good, you can learn to display yourself that way easily with much less efforts.
Both the types of personalities are important. While internal personality is the real you and your all time asset and that should be excellent, It is important to have impressive external personality too, as you are aware that at times, first impression may be the last impression. You may not get another chance to correct that impression if it was not OK for the other person who matters to you.
It is important to improve both the elements of the personality. Good external personality is necessary to create first good impression on the people. However, over the long term, one's internal personality element is more important, useful and lasting. One should have integrated internal personality.

What personality are you?

Internal personality:

“What you really are from inside”

Internal personality includes:

• Sensing- five senses comes under this.
• Thinking- Thinking people are objective and make decisions based on facts.  They are logical and  more objective.
• Intuition- more deeper then sense and also called as “sixth-sense”.
• Judging- person approach life in a structured way, creating plans and organizing their world to achieve their goals. Take decision quickly and clearly.
• Feeling- Feeling people are subjective and make decisions based on principles and values.
• Perceiving- person keep their options open and think randomly. They like to act spontaneously and are adaptable. 

External Personality:

“This is what you look outside” or “what outside world look you”

External personality includes:

•          Physical fitness- The body's ability to function efficiently and effectively
•          Dress sense- Put on some attractive combinations of clothes.
•          Body Language- Feel through physical behavior.
•          Cleanliness- Cleanliness may be endowed with a moral quality.
•          Impressive communication- To make person impressive and influential.
•          Mannerisms-person’s distinctive gesture.

"The more you understand about personality, the better able you are to judge what motivates people - and yourself."