Door Of Happiness!!

Finding happiness is like finding yourself. You choose happiness. it is a process of discovering who you are, who you want to be. Happiness is not merely a life lived for moments of pleasure. but, happiness is a long lasting enduring enjoyment of life, it is being in love with living.

Being happy is linked to better health and even a longer life.

ACCEPT WHAT YOU HAVE

Happy people have modest levels of expectation and aspirations. They want what they can get. while unhappy people never seem to get what they want. They also know how to avoid disappointments and how to generate pleasant surprises. This is because they live for realistic goals. we must accept things as they come. 

ENJOY WHAT YOU DO

Happy people do what they enjoy and enjoy what they do. There’s no point being stuck in a job you hate, surrounded by unfriendly colleagues just because the money is good. People forget that they are allowed to be happy at work, too. Many spend the best years of their lives trying to make money, sacrificing their health and family in the process. They do spend the same money they made working trying to recover their lost health and family. 

LIVE FOR TODAY

Don’t dwell on the past, on things that went wrong or previous failures. Similarly, don’t dream about an idealised future that doesn’t exist or worry about what hasn’t happened yet. Happy people live for the now; they have positive mind sets. If you can’t be happy today, what makes you think tomorrow will be different?

CHOOSE HAPPINESS

Don’t be afraid to step back and re-evaluate your goals. Imagine your life as a story that you can edit and revise as you go along. This kind of flexible approach requires positive thinking and an open mind. you need to actively choose to be happy.

RELATIONSHIPS

We get our happiness from other people, and from supporting other people. Remember that just as other people can make us happy, we are all ‘other people’ to someone else. 

STAY BUSY

If you want to be happier, develop an outgoing, social personality. accept that drinks invitation, join any club, or anything u like. The best of pleasure is in the company of others.

BE YOURSELF

You shouldn’t compare yourself with others, it’s important not to worry about what others think about you, only then you can truly be yourself.
Happy people are spontaneous, natural and real. they say what they think and  feel, and aren’t concerned what others think of them. Being oneself makes one feel free.

STOP WORRYING

Don’t take yourself too seriously. Happy people don’t worry and work at developing optimistic thinking. happy people always look on the  bright side. Successful people know to focus on winning, not losing

GET ORGANISED

Happy people plan and organise, they have goals and a purpose. You can only get what you want or desire if you know what it is you want or desire in the first place. So while those chilled-out friends might seem happy, they’re actually just drifting along. 

VALUE HAPPINESS

Happiness can be learned. Happiness comes only from appreciating what you have. You can even be happy by appreciating your troubles because they do help to build your character and add value.

You will never be happier if you expect. To change your happiness, change your expectation.